It must be exhausting and lonely seeing the world in black and white.

In North America it’s like domestic violence in a word. Cunt doesn’t really have a positive connotation here.

If you’ve known him for 20 years he should respect you enough that you can tell him he’s being a cunt. Coming from you it should mean something, and maybe he’ll take a look at himself. I’m friends with some right wingers who are decent people but folks like that need to be called out.